January may have been the month of blues, resolutions and a slow transition. But with Valentine’s Day around the corner, it’s the perfect chance to turn up the heat in bed and build a deeper, passionate bond with your partner. Be it long-term partners or new BAEs in bed, Valentine’s Day opens the doors to intellectual intimacy, exploration and most of all, satisfying experiences.
Sexual chemistry is an important part of personal relationships, as it helps release happy hormones, release endorphins and improve mood. Sometimes, life, health issues and other commitments get in the way, here are some ways in which you can heighten the tension and make this Valentine’s Day one to remember!
BUILD A CONNECTION OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM
Communication and trust can make or break the sexual relationship between you and your partner. By engaging in intimate, yet romantic activities, you can understand your partner better and further build anticipation for your bedroom activities. Long-term partners may experience a sense of monotony, so reconnecting on an emotional level can bring the spark back.
DEEPER FOREPLAY
Sometimes, taking things slow can improve your sexual chemistry and build the connection. Ease your partner into the night through a sensual massage, aromatic candles and dim lights to build the tension. Adding a body massage oil to the mix can make your partner’s pheromones go crazy and get them going for a marathon in bed.
DATE NIGHT
Valentine’s Day is all about romance, grand gestures and surprises. Pamper your partner with a fun, exhilarating date night. Pick something that is out of the ordinary for you - maybe a dinner at a happening restaurant, a dance show or a musical performance. You can also surprise them with a night at the hotel to reinfuse passion in the connection.
EXPLORE FANTASIES
After a nice date, you may want to add some spice to your afterparty in the bedroom. Ask your partner about their deepest, eccentric fantasies that they’d like to try out. Be it roleplay, dominance, or new positions, engaging in some quirks can add excitement to your night and help increase pleasure with an element of thrill.
SUPPLEMENTS
Age, lifestyle or work commitments do take a toll on the libido and desire to engage in sexual activity. For Valentine’s Day, make sure that doesn’t cut your plans short by taking natural supplements. Libido Boosting supplements come in tablets or sweet edibles to improve hormonal balance, enhance blood flow to the genitals and increase stamina for a night of passionate intercourse.
EDGE, EDGE & EDGE
All good things to those who wait and there’s nothing better than delayed gratification. By controlling your urge and extending intimate activities, you can make orgasms more intense, pleasurable and memorable. By edging your climax and experimenting with control, you can make Valentine’s the longest and most exciting day.
